Support nested types in lists::contains (#10548)

This extends the `lists::contains` API to support nested types (lists + structs) with arbitrarily nested levels. As such, `lists::contains` will work with literally any type of input data.

In addition, the related implementation has been significantly refactored to facilitate adding new implementation.

Closes #8958.
Depends on:
 * #10730
 * #10883
 * #10999
 * #11019
 * #11037

Authors:
  - Nghia Truong (https://github.com/ttnghia)
  - Bradley Dice (https://github.com/bdice)

Approvers:
  - MithunR (https://github.com/mythrocks)
  - Bradley Dice (https://github.com/bdice)

URL: #10548

cpp/include/cudf/lists/list_device_view.cuh

@@ -129,6 +129,13 @@ class list_device_view {
    */
   [[nodiscard]] __device__ inline size_type size() const { return _size; }
 
+  /**
+   * @brief Returns the row index of this list in the original lists column.
+   *
+   * @return The row index of this list
+   */
+  [[nodiscard]] __device__ inline size_type row_index() const { return _row_index; }
+
   /**
    * @brief Fetches the lists_column_device_view that contains this list.
    *