Add support for custom attributes for spans and logs

[bnjjj]

Fixes #4096
Fixes #4086
Fixes #3543
Fixes #3537

Checklist

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• Changes are compatible¹
• Documentation² completed
• Performance impact assessed and acceptable
• Tests added and passing³
  • Unit Tests
  • Integration Tests
  • Manual Tests

Exceptions

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Notes

Footnotes

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2. Configuration is an important part of many changes. Where applicable please try to document configuration examples. ↩

3. Tick whichever testing boxes are applicable. If you are adding Manual Tests, please document the manual testing (extensively) in the Exceptions. ↩

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[router-perf]

CI performance tests

• events_big_cap_high_rate - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity
• events_without_dedup - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED
• events - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED
• large-request - Stress test with a 1 MB request payload
• step - Basic stress test that steps up the number of users over time
• xlarge-request - Stress test with 10 MB request payload
• reload - Reload test over a long period of time at a constant rate of users
• no-graphos - Basic stress test, no GraphOS.
• xxlarge-request - Stress test with 100 MB request payload
• step-jemalloc-tuning - Clone of the basic stress test for jemalloc tuning
• const - Basic stress test that runs with a constant number of users