feat: reimplements server with h3

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🔗 Linked issue

❓ Type of change

• 📖 Documentation (updates to the documentation, readme, or JSdoc annotations)
• 🐞 Bug fix (a non-breaking change that fixes an issue)
• 👌 Enhancement (improving an existing functionality like performance)
• ✨ New feature (a non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• 🧹 Chore (updates to the build process or auxiliary tools and libraries)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

📚 Description

This PR reimplements middleware as a new server powered by h3 utils and adapters which will be maintained upstream for best platform compatibility and stability.

As part of this refactor, API has a few breaking changes and some features might be dropped initially.

New exports:

• createIPXH3Handler(ipx)
• createIPXH3App(ipx)
• createIPXWebServer(ipx)
• createIPXNodeServer(ipx)
• createIPXPlainServer(ipx)

TODO:

• Make sure there are no security issues by removing dependency on xss ~> h3
• Use H3 errors
• Try to support back per instance global options (or alternatively move to ipx core)

📝 Checklist

• I have linked an issue or discussion.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.