cudf consistently specifies the cuda runtime (#7887)

CMake has two ways to control the CUDA runtime to link too. This makes sure that the CUDA language controls and the CUDAToolkit both target the same runtime

Issue brought up in: #7600

Authors:
  - Robert Maynard (https://github.com/robertmaynard)

Approvers:
  - Alessandro Bellina (https://github.com/abellina)
  - Keith Kraus (https://github.com/kkraus14)

URL: #7887

cpp/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -470,8 +470,14 @@ target_link_libraries(cudf
                   rmm::rmm)
 
 if(CUDA_STATIC_RUNTIME)
+    # Tell CMake what CUDA language runtime to use
+    set_target_properties(cudf PROPERTIES CUDA_RUNTIME_LIBRARY Static)
+    # Make sure to export to consumers what runtime we used
     target_link_libraries(cudf PUBLIC CUDA::cudart_static CUDA::cuda_driver)
 else()
+    # Tell CMake what CUDA language runtime to use
+    set_target_properties(cudf PROPERTIES CUDA_RUNTIME_LIBRARY Shared)
+    # Make sure to export to consumers what runtime we used
     target_link_libraries(cudf PUBLIC CUDA::cudart CUDA::cuda_driver)
 endif()
 

cpp/cmake/thirdparty/CUDF_GetArrow.cmake

@@ -43,6 +43,7 @@ function(find_and_configure_arrow VERSION BUILD_STATIC)
         GIT_SHALLOW     TRUE
         SOURCE_SUBDIR   cpp
         OPTIONS         "CMAKE_VERBOSE_MAKEFILE ON"
+                        "CUDA_USE_STATIC_CUDA_RUNTIME ${CUDA_STATIC_RUNTIME}"
                         "ARROW_IPC ON"
                         "ARROW_CUDA ON"
                         "ARROW_DATASET ON"