Changes to get native build work on Windows with GraalVM Java 11

[ctomc]

With this changes I am able to build (few) quickstarts natively on Windows 10 with GraalVM-java11-20.0.0

wildfly-common upgrade fixes wrongly included winsock.h when compiling on windows.
maven plugin fix is just to address final name which includes .exe

VS 2017 with some extras is needed for build to work.
For anyone looking what all tools are needed: (mostly got it from here)

For building on JDK 8, you need different set of build tools and properly set environment.

To install via chocolatey

choco install visualstudio2017community --version 15.9.17.0 --no-progress --package-parameters "--add Microsoft.VisualStudio.Component.VC.Tools.ARM64 --add Microsoft.VisualStudio.Component.VC.CMake.Project"

once installed environment can be set by running:

call "C:\Program Files (x86)\Microsoft Visual Studio\2017\Community\VC\Auxiliary\Build\vcvars64.bat"

[geoand]

cc @dmlloyd @gwenneg @jaikiran

[gsmet]

Hi @ctomc !

Looks good to me. I will let David merge it though as he's more aware of the changes in wildfly-common.

[gsmet]

@michalszynkiewicz wondering if we should get this one into 1.3. It has an updated wildfly-common though. WDYT?

[michalszynkiewicz]

@gsmet I'm okay with updating wildfly-common in 1.3

[maxandersen]

waait - this is awesome! My first PR now make sense to rebase :)

#4103 colors galore! :)