executor: add ru details in slow log and INFORMATION_SCHEMA.SLOW_QUERY (#49067)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #49067

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #49318 close #42892

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

Add Resource_group, Request_unit_read, Request_unit_write and Time_queued_by_rc in slow_log and INFORMATION_SCHEMA.SLOW_QUERY.

NOTE: The three new fields are collected in client-go resourceControlInterceptor after tikv/client-go#1070

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-02-18 09:10:38.757186028 +0000 UTC m=+175527.504809136: ☑️ agreed by nolouch.
• 2024-02-18 09:13:14.892471065 +0000 UTC m=+175683.640094174: ☑️ agreed by glorv.

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[easonn7]

/approve

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