lightning: remove alter table lock (#50074)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #50074

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #50105

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

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Tests

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• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
  import large mount of tables(each table is about several tens of MB), after this pr, we can import from 674 tables/h/instance -> 809. Since TiDB still handle alter table in serial internally, the speedup is not that obvious. Note we are importing using 10 lightning, some instance have more improvement
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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• 2024-01-24 02:23:39.046567183 +0000 UTC m=+927460.610864889: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.
• 2024-01-24 02:24:28.841892353 +0000 UTC m=+927510.406190058: ☑️ agreed by zimulala.

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