Fix and modernize listener<> #2633

Job	Run time
freebsd	0s
clang-format Code Formatter	4m 50s
fedora	0s
nix	0s
Windows MSYS2 (gcc)	11m 36s
Additional compile flags in Ubuntu	7m 57s
macOS	11m 34s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, gcc)	5m 48s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, gcc, Release)	6m 34s
WebAssembly	0s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, gcc, Debug)	6m 54s
Windows Clang	0s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, gcc, RelWithDebInfo)	7m 12s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, clang)	5m 56s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, clang, Release)	5m 51s
Ubuntu (ubuntu-22.04, clang, Debug)	6m 31s
	1h 20m 43s

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