Update nodejs version to LTS 18.16.1

[millsks]

Checklist

• Used a personal fork of the feedstock to propose changes
• Bumped the build number (if the version is unchanged)
• Reset the build number to 0 (if the version changed)
• Re-rendered with the latest conda-smithy (Use the phrase @conda-forge-admin, please rerender in a comment in this PR for automated rerendering)
• Ensured the license file is being packaged.

Updated the recipe to pull 18.16.1 which is the current LTS version on https://nodejs.org.

[conda-forge-webservices]

Hi! This is the friendly automated conda-forge-linting service.

I just wanted to let you know that I linted all conda-recipes in your PR (recipe) and found it was in an excellent condition.

[millsks]

@conda-forge-admin, please rerender

[millsks]

FAILED: obj/deps/v8/src/base/v8_libbase.bounded-page-allocator.o 
x86_64-apple-darwin13.4.0-clang++ -MMD -MF obj/deps/v8/src/base/v8_libbase.bounded-page-allocator.o.d -D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI=1 -DNODE_OPENSSL_CONF_NAME=nodejs_conf -DICU_NO_USER_DATA_OVERRIDE -DV8_GYP_BUILD -DV8_TYPED_ARRAY_MAX_SIZE_IN_HEAP=64 -D_DARWIN_USE_64_BIT_INODE=1 -DV8_TARGET_ARCH_X64 -DV8_HAVE_TARGET_OS -DV8_TARGET_OS_MACOS '-DV8_EMBEDDER_STRING="-node.26"' -DENABLE_DISASSEMBLER -DV8_PROMISE_INTERNAL_FIELD_COUNT=1 -DV8_SHORT_BUILTIN_CALLS -DOBJECT_PRINT -DV8_INTL_SUPPORT -DV8_ATOMIC_OBJECT_FIELD_WRITES -DV8_ENABLE_LAZY_SOURCE_POSITIONS -DV8_USE_SIPHASH -DV8_SHARED_RO_HEAP -DV8_WIN64_UNWINDING_INFO -DV8_ENABLE_REGEXP_INTERPRETER_THREADED_DISPATCH -DV8_ENABLE_SYSTEM_INSTRUMENTATION -DV8_ENABLE_WEBASSEMBLY -DV8_ENABLE_JAVASCRIPT_PROMISE_HOOKS -DV8_ALLOCATION_FOLDING -DV8_ALLOCATION_SITE_TRACKING -DV8_SCRIPTORMODULE_LEGACY_LIFETIME -DV8_ADVANCED_BIGINT_ALGORITHMS -DBUILDING_V8_BASE_SHARED -I$PREFIX/include -I../../deps/v8 -I../../deps/v8/include -O3 -gdwarf-2 -fstrict-aliasing -mmacosx-version-min=10.15 -Wall -Wendif-labels -W -Wno-unused-parameter -D_FORTIFY_SOURCE=2 -isystem $PREFIX/include -D_DARWIN_C_SOURCE -march=core2 -mtune=haswell -mssse3 -ftree-vectorize -fPIC -fPIE -fstack-protector-strong -O2 -pipe -stdlib=libc++ -fvisibility-inlines-hidden -fmessage-length=0 -isystem $PREFIX/include -fdebug-prefix-map=$SRC_DIR=/usr/local/src/conda/nodejs-18.16.1 -fdebug-prefix-map=$PREFIX=/usr/local/src/conda-prefix -std=gnu++17 -stdlib=libc++ -fno-rtti -fno-exceptions -fno-strict-aliasing  -c ../../deps/v8/src/base/bounded-page-allocator.cc -o obj/deps/v8/src/base/v8_libbase.bounded-page-allocator.o
In file included from ../../deps/v8/src/base/bounded-page-allocator.cc:5:
In file included from ../../deps/v8/src/base/bounded-page-allocator.h:8:
In file included from ../../deps/v8/include/v8-platform.h:11:
In file included from $BUILD_PREFIX/bin/../include/c++/v1/memory:884:
In file included from $BUILD_PREFIX/bin/../include/c++/v1/__memory/allocate_at_least.h:13:
In file included from $BUILD_PREFIX/bin/../include/c++/v1/__memory/allocator_traits.h:14:
In file included from $BUILD_PREFIX/bin/../include/c++/v1/__memory/construct_at.h:23:
$BUILD_PREFIX/bin/../include/c++/v1/new:355:14: error: no member named 'aligned_alloc' in the global namespace
    return ::aligned_alloc(__alignment, __size > __rounded_size ? __size : __rounded_size);
           ~~^
1 error generated.
ninja: build stopped: subcommand failed.