release-23.1.9-rc: roachtest: pin liveness lease to live node in lease prefs test

[blathers-crl]

Backport 1/1 commits from #108517 on behalf of @kvoli.

/cc @cockroachdb/release

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The lease preferences roachtest could occasionally fail, if the liveness leaseholder were on a stopped node. We should address this issue, for now, pin the liveness lease to a live node to prevent flakes.

Informs: #108512
Resolves: #108425
Release note: None

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Resolves: #109071
Release justification: Test only changes.

[blathers-crl]

Thanks for opening a backport.

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[cockroach-teamcity]

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[kvoli]

See #109071 (comment).