chore(deps): Almost a full update of pre-0.x "minor-y" deps

[abernix]

This tries to aim a majority of the (now very old)
#2665.

However, this intentionally holds back the following from a larger, more
ambitious set of updates which has more work to be done. The packages held
back are:

• base64
• ecdsa
• tokio-tungstenite
• tonic
• toml
• serde_yaml
• jsonschema

Additional PRs can adjust those deps since they require some more nuanced
changes. In fact, I even have one of them handy already, but would rather
land this straight update, first.

[github-actions]

@abernix, please consider creating a changeset entry in /.changesets/. These instructions describe the process and tooling.

[router-perf]

CI performance tests

• step - Basic stress test that steps up the number of users over time
• events_without_dedup - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED
• xlarge-request - Stress test with 10 MB request payload
• xxlarge-request - Stress test with 100 MB request payload
• events_big_cap_high_rate - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity
• const - Basic stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• reload - Reload test over a long period of time at a constant rate of users
• large-request - Stress test with a 1 MB request payload
• events - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED
• step-jemalloc-tuning - Clone of the basic stress test for jemalloc tuning
• no-graphos - Basic stress test, no GraphOS.