reimplement fix for akka/pekko cluster #821

Job	Run time
JDK 8 / Scala 2.12.x	58m 15s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.12.x	58m 15s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	9m 28s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	9m 28s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.12.x	1h 11m 2s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.12.x	1h 11m 2s
Pekko Cluster Metrics Test with Sigar	7m 0s
Pekko Cluster Metrics Test with Sigar	7m 0s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-sharding/test)	9m 20s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-sharding/test)	9m 20s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.12.x	55m 50s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.12.x	57m 24s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-typed/test cluster-sharding-typed/test)	8m 58s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster-typed/test cluster-sharding-typed/test)	8m 58s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.12.x	58m 47s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.12.x	58m 47s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.13.x	59m 23s
JDK 8 / Scala 2.13.x	59m 23s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.13.x	57m 52s
JDK 11 / Scala 2.13.x	1h 9m 53s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.13.x	58m 20s
JDK 17 / Scala 2.13.x	58m 20s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.13.x	59m 34s
JDK 21 / Scala 2.13.x	59m 34s
JDK 8 / Scala 3.3.x	59m 6s
JDK 8 / Scala 3.3.x	59m 6s
JDK 11 / Scala 3.3.x	1h 4m 49s
JDK 11 / Scala 3.3.x	1h 4m 49s
JDK 17 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 9s
JDK 17 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 9s
JDK 21 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 28s
JDK 21 / Scala 3.3.x	57m 28s
	1d 1h 18m 17s

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