[#3320] fix(client): shadow slf4j for client-java-runtime (#3318)

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
shadow slf4j for client-java-runtime and spark-connector-runtime 

### Why are the changes needed?
some systems like spark 3.3 need low version log4j, will encounter the
conflict bug:

```
java.lang.NoSuchMethodError: org.apache.logging.slf4j.Log4jLoggerFactory: method 'void <init>()' not found
```

fix: #3320 

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
no

### How was this patch tested?
existing tests

clients/client-java-runtime/build.gradle.kts

@@ -24,6 +24,7 @@ tasks.withType<ShadowJar>(ShadowJar::class.java) {
   relocate("com.fasterxml", "com.datastrato.gravitino.shaded.com.fasterxml")
   relocate("org.apache.httpcomponents", "com.datastrato.gravitino.shaded.org.apache.httpcomponents")
   relocate("org.apache.commons", "com.datastrato.gravitino.shaded.org.apache.commons")
+  relocate("org.apache.logging.slf4j", "com.datastrato.gravitino.shaded.org.apache.logging.slf4j")
   relocate("org.antlr", "com.datastrato.gravitino.shaded.org.antlr")
 }