Disable single parsing of compiler graphs by default

Disable single parsing of compiler graphs till the impact of it on heap
usage decreases see oracle/graal#3435 and
graalvm/mandrel#304 (comment)

quarkusio#19511 didn't take into account
runs with constraint memory.  Bringing back `-H:-ParseOnce` reduces the
heap usage significantly, from 3.9G down to 2.7G in
integration-tests/main.

core/deployment/src/main/java/io/quarkus/deployment/pkg/NativeConfig.java

@@ -382,6 +382,17 @@ public static class Debug {
     @ConfigItem
     public boolean enableDashboardDump;
 
+    /**
+     * Instruct GraalVM / Mandrel to parse compiler graphs only once before static analysis. When false, compiler graphs
+     * are parsed once for the static analysis and once again for the AOT compilation.
+     *
+     * This is set to {@code false} by default because single parsing significantly increases memory usage at build time
+     * see https://github.com/oracle/graal/issues/3435 and
+     * https://github.com/graalvm/mandrel/issues/304#issuecomment-952070568 for more details.
+     */
+    @ConfigItem(defaultValue = "false")
+    public boolean enableParseOnce;
+
     /**
      * Supported Container runtimes
      */

core/deployment/src/main/java/io/quarkus/deployment/pkg/steps/NativeImageBuildStep.java

@@ -690,6 +690,10 @@ public NativeImageInvokerInfo build() {
                     nativeImageArgs.add("-H:+DashboardAll");
                 }
 
+                if (!nativeConfig.enableParseOnce) {
+                    nativeImageArgs.add("-H:-ParseOnce");
+                }
+
                 if (nativeImageSecurityProviders != null && !nativeImageSecurityProviders.isEmpty()) {
                     String additionalSecurityProviders = nativeImageSecurityProviders.stream()
                             .map(p -> p.getSecurityProvider())