[BACKPORT 2024.2][DEVOPS-3238] Move macOS build to macos13 (Ventura)

Summary:
Move jenkins build/test infrastructure for macos13.
Move mac spark unit testing from x86 to arm64.

Original commit: 0d1046a / D38046

Test Plan: Jenkins: build platform: mac13

Reviewers: jharveysmith

Reviewed By: jharveysmith

Subscribers: devops

Differential Revision: https://phorge.dev.yugabyte.com/D38472

jenkins_jobs.yml

@@ -29,21 +29,22 @@ jobs:
     architecture: aarch64
     release_artifact: true
 
-  - os: mac12
+  - os: mac13
     compiler: clang
     build_type: release
     architecture: arm64
     test_opts: YB_TEST_YB_CONTROLLER=0
     release_artifact: true
 
-  - os: mac12
+  - os: mac13
     compiler: clang
     build_type: release
     architecture: x86_64
-    test_opts: YB_TEST_YB_CONTROLLER=0
+    test_opts: YB_COMPILE_ONLY=1
     release_artifact: true
 
   - os: ubuntu22.04
     compiler: clang17
     build_type: debug
     release_artifact: false
+    test_opts: YB_COMPILE_ONLY=1

python/yugabyte/yb_dist_tests.py

@@ -216,6 +216,7 @@ def set_global_conf_from_dict(global_conf_dict: Dict[str, str]) -> GlobalTestCon
     'www',
     'yb_build.sh',
     'build/venv',
+    'build/venv-arm64',
     'build/ybc',
     'requirements.txt',
     'requirements_frozen.txt',