add retry for god user check when leader changed

[SuperYoko]

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• bug
• feature
• enhancement

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Description:

#4624

How do you solve it?

retry 3 & raft heart beat time if leader changed.
I didn't handle other info like metaversion/clusterid since it won't affect even rerwite or it has some other logic to get from coding/data structure.

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[Sophie-Xie]

close #4624

[panda-sheep]

Good job

[critical27]

LGTM

[HarrisChu]

failed in nightly running