refactor(cli): use cargo run for tauri dev

[FabianLars]

closes #4724

Soooo i have small problem here. I debugged this for so long (hours) that i don't even remember why i was debugging it. The only difference between the current behavior and this PR is a new error message on ctrlc but i think this cargo run is printing that.

i would appreciate some testing and telling me what i missed.

p.s. the cargo check workflow will fail. didn't want to remove DevCleanup and manually_killed until someone tells me what i missed.

p.p.s. i'll try to do some refactoring after this gets merged. the whole cli dev/build impl is a bit convoluted 😅

p.p.p.s idk why github messes up the diff this much, it's better in vscode for me

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Package Changes Through 59d20b6

There are 7 changes which include tauri-bundler with minor, tauri-cli with minor, @tauri-apps/cli with minor, tauri with minor, tauri-runtime with minor, tauri-runtime-wry with minor, tauri-utils with patch

Planned Package Versions

The following package releases are the planned based on the context of changes in this pull request.

package	current	next
tauri-utils	2.1.0	2.1.1
tauri-bundler	2.1.0	2.2.0
tauri-runtime	2.2.0	2.3.0
tauri-runtime-wry	2.2.0	2.3.0
tauri-codegen	2.0.3	2.0.4
tauri-macros	2.0.3	2.0.4
tauri-plugin	2.0.3	2.0.4
tauri-build	2.0.3	2.0.4
tauri	2.1.1	2.2.0
@tauri-apps/cli	2.1.0	2.2.0
tauri-cli	2.1.0	2.2.0

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[FabianLars]

also, most of the changes were done last week, postponed due to system issues which is probably why i don't know what was wrong with it anymore x)