[Feature Request]: Unify the cache locations configurability by using find-cache-dir everywhere

[kubijo]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe

I am unifying the cache directory path for our tools and storybook is the last hard-headed one that seemingly cannot be persuaded to use it (as seen in resolve-path-in-sb-cache.ts#L6)

Describe the solution you'd like

Consider introducing some solution for this to be configurable?
You are seemingly using find-cache-dir for some cache path, which should be manipulable by CACHE_DIR env variable, but not in the linked location, which results in node_modules/.cache/storybook/{dev-server,public} being created in my workspace root (I use Yarn's PNP mechanism, so otherwise I do not have node_modules at all)…

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Are you able to assist to bring the feature to reality?

yes, I can

Additional context

#4665 (comment)

[kubijo]

This is a follow-on the comment #4665 (comment) from @ndelangen