[TEST] Fix linking order and gmock linking (#3106) #3

Job	Run time
CMake test arm64 (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	1s
Bazel asan config	19m 58s
Bazel without bzlmod	17m 9s
Bazel nortti	18m 42s
Bazel noexcept	21m 54s
Bazel on MacOS	13m 42s
Bazel	20m 11s
Bazel with async export	18m 25s
Bazel tsan config	18m 45s
Bazel valgrind	19m 58s
Benchmark	15m 30s
CMake test (with abseil)	4m 45s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	8m 29s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, async)	8m 32s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, sync)	8m 38s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	22m 15s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, async)	7m 4s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	8m 31s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 40s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	20m 11s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 25s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	9m 51s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	6m 19s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	15m 42s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	15m 24s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	6m 11s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 24s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	4m 50s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	8m 45s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	9m 1s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 5s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	8m 42s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 40s
Code coverage	11m 19s
Copyright	8s
DocFX check	34s
Format	21s
markdown-lint	8s
misspell	7s
Plugin -> CMake	58s
shellcheck	6s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 41s
Bazel Windows	33m 16s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	7m 0s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	12m 3s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	23m 0s
	8h 8m 20s

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