MaxContentLength support for Netty pt 2

[kciesielski]

Partially addresses #2971
This is a follow-up to PR #3319

Add raw body content length limiting for all Netty backends.

After enabling body length limit on an endpoint, both streaming and non-streaming (raw) requests will be checked. If exceeded, HTTP 413 Payload Too Large response is sent.
Usage:

import sttp.tapir._
import sttp.tapir.server.model.EndpointExtensions._

val limitedEndpoint = endpoint.maxRequestBodyLength(maxBytes = 163484L)

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Design notes and open questions:

1. That EndpointExtensions and MaxContentLength types exposed as public API are in the sttp.tapir.server.model package, in the tapir-server core module. I'm happy do discuss better alternatives.

2. I heavily refactored all Netty backends to exrtact some repetitions into NettyRequestBody, NettyStreamingRequestBody, NettyToResponseBody, NettyToStreamsResponseBody, Fs2StreamsCompatible, ZioStreamsCompatible.

3. A critical change was to switch our base Netty pipeline to always use Reactive Streams. This allows to process incoming bytes for raw requests chunk by chunk, and potentially react if total accumulated length is too large. While cats and zio offer simple converters to/from Subscriber/Publisher for their streams, in the Future and Loom backends I had to write manual integrations. They deal with concurrency using lower-level mechanisms, please review them carefully. This includes publishers and subscribers located in netty-server/src/main/scala/sttp/tapir/server/netty/internal/reactivestreams/.

[adamw]

Looks good, let's ship it :)