Remove event listeners on handler drop

[m-bert]

Description

Right now when handlers are dropped, event listeners are not removed from view. I think this might cause problems with SSR. With this PR, listeners are properly removed from underlying view.

Before

Nagranie.z.ekranu.2024-03-19.o.18.24.27.mov

After

Nagranie.z.ekranu.2024-03-19.o.18.25.35.mov

Test plan

1. Run the following code:

Test code

import React, { useState } from 'react';
import { StyleSheet, View } from 'react-native';
import { Gesture, GestureDetector } from 'react-native-gesture-handler';

export default function EmptyExample() {
  const fling = Gesture.Fling();
  const tap = Gesture.Tap();

  const [g, setG] = useState<any>(fling);

  setTimeout(() => {
    setG(tap);
    console.log('Switching gesture to tap');
  }, 1500);

  return (
    <View style={styles.container}>
      <GestureDetector gesture={g}>
        <View style={[styles.circle, { backgroundColor: 'crimson' }]} />
      </GestureDetector>
    </View>
  );
}

const styles = StyleSheet.create({
  container: {
    flex: 1,
    justifyContent: 'center',
    alignItems: 'center',
  },

  circle: {
    width: 150,
    height: 150,
    borderRadius: 75,
  },
});

2. Select red circle with inspector and navigate to Event Listeners
3. Check that only one listener is present after Gesture was changed

[j-piasecki]

LGTM but please fix lint before merging