Optimize the performance of xds flow control functionality

[hanbingleixue]

What type of PR is this?

Enhancement

What this PR does / why we need it?

Optimize the performance of xds flow control functionality

Which issue(s) this PR fixes？

Fixes #1729 #1515

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

No

Checklist

• Make sure there is a GitHub_issue related with this PR before you start working on it.
• Make sure you have squashed your change to one single commit.
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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 14.28571% with 216 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../flowcontrol/AbstractXdsHttpClientInterceptor.java	0.00%	41 Missing ⚠️
...owcontrol/res4j/chain/AbstractXdsChainHandler.java	9.09%	30 Missing ⚠️
...nt/HttpUrlConnectionResponseStreamInterceptor.java	0.00%	20 Missing ⚠️
...mant/flowcontrol/DispatcherServletInterceptor.java	21.73%	16 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
...mant/flowcontrol/retry/handler/RetryHandlerV2.java	6.25%	15 Missing ⚠️
.../flowcontrol/res4j/chain/XdsHandlerChainEntry.java	0.00%	15 Missing ⚠️
...chain/handler/XdsBusinessServerRequestHandler.java	8.33%	11 Missing ⚠️
...rmant/flowcontrol/res4j/chain/XdsHandlerChain.java	0.00%	9 Missing ⚠️
...l/res4j/service/XdsHttpFlowControlServiceImpl.java	0.00%	7 Missing ⚠️
...control/retry/client/OkHttp3ClientInterceptor.java	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
... and 14 more

Flag	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
unittests	42.49% <14.28%> (-0.06%)	181.00 <0.00> (ø)

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
...control/common/handler/AbstractRequestHandler.java	90.00% <ø> (+11.73%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...ermant/flowcontrol/common/handler/retry/Retry.java	100.00% <ø> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...flowcontrol/common/handler/retry/RetryContext.java	80.00% <ø> (+16.84%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...l/common/xds/circuit/XdsCircuitBreakerManager.java	77.77% <ø> (+11.11%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...ant/flowcontrol/retry/FeignRequestInterceptor.java	37.30% <ø> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...mant/flowcontrol/retry/HttpRequestInterceptor.java	42.70% <100.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
.../flowcontrol/res4j/chain/AbstractChainHandler.java	92.85% <ø> (-2.39%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...ant/flowcontrol/res4j/chain/HandlerChainEntry.java	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...wcontrol/retry/AlibabaDubboInvokerInterceptor.java	49.47% <0.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...owcontrol/retry/ApacheDubboInvokerInterceptor.java	46.46% <0.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
... and 22 more

... and 5 files with indirect coverage changes