Update dependencies

[jayvdb]

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[jxs]

Hi! Can we also take the opportunity to update async-io to 2.4.0 to drop the instant dependency? We are having our CI broken due to it being unmaintained:

222 │ instant 0.1.13 registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index
    │ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ unmaintained advisory detected
    │
    ├ ID: RUSTSEC-2024-0384
    ├ Advisory: https://rustsec.org/advisories/RUSTSEC-2024-0384
    ├ This crate is no longer maintained, and the author recommends using the maintained [`web-time`] crate instead.
      
      [`web-time`]: https://crates.io/crates/web-time
    ├ Solution: No safe upgrade is available!
    ├ instant v0.1.13
      └── fastrand v1.9.0
          └── futures-lite v1.13.0
              └── async-io v1.13.0
                  └── netlink-sys v0.8.6

[jayvdb]

Can we also take the opportunity to update async-io to 2.4.0

That update requires a significant effort due to lots of incompatibility with the netlink-sys codebase. See #17