Column menu update - Add accessible resize option

[notsidney]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Columns can only be resized by drag on the edges, but this is not an accessible method and is especially difficult on touch screens.

It can also be difficult to see where the click/drag target exactly is. MUI’s Data Grid is a good example of explicitly showing the drag target: https://mui.com/components/data-grid/columns/#resizing

Describe the solution you'd like
In the column menu, there should be an option to resize that opens a modal to set the column width, maybe with a preview.

[ashutosh887]

I would like to work on this Issue!

[nithinrdy]

@harinij @BeeBombshell , mind if I take a stab at this? I've looked through the tanstack API, but there doesn't appear to be a method or something to directly update a column's width programmatically -- resizing via dragging seems to be the only supported way of doing this (using getResizeHandler()).

However, I've been able to hack together a way to update a column's width by constructing a fake MouseEvent with the desired value, and then dispatching said event to the handler I mentioned above. Although a scrappy way of doing it, it works as expected,

If this approach looks good to you, I'd like to open a PR -- If possible, I'd also appreciate any designs to go off of :)
If not, I'd like your thoughts on what I could be missing here. Thanks!

Edit: I have yet to figure out a way to allow for a "Fit to data" option, but I figured I'd first get your thoughts on what I have so far, especially because the issue appears to be inactive.

[nithinrdy]

I'm assuming actual code would better facilitate a discussion compared to a simple comment, opened a PR, PTAL!