feat(bonfire): Replace async-std,async-tungstenite,async-channel.

[Drevoed]

This PR tries to modernize the bonfire service.

Async-std is an unmaintained runtime.

fastwebsockets is a much faster implementation of websockets standard compared to async-tungstenite.
Possible choice could be tokio-tungstenite, but it is still slower, albeit easier to work with.

Using tokio also allows us to later use much of the useful features, such as out-of-the box tracing integration.

This PR is draft, will mark as ready when benchmarks for bonfire are ready.

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