Enable running tests using RMM arena and async memory resources

[rongou]

Since Spark uses both the arena and the cuda async allocators, it is useful to run the c++ tests using these allocators.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #9506 (cfca2ab) into branch-21.12 (ab4bfaa) will decrease coverage by 0.11%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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##           branch-21.12    #9506      +/-   ##
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- Coverage         10.79%   10.67%   -0.12%     
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  Files               116      117       +1     
  Lines             18869    19714     +845     
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+ Hits               2036     2104      +68     
- Misses            16833    17610     +777     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
python/dask_cudf/dask_cudf/sorting.py	92.90% <0.00%> (-1.21%)	⬇️
python/cudf/cudf/io/csv.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/io/hdf.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/io/orc.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/__init__.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/_version.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/core/abc.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/api/types.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/io/dlpack.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
python/cudf/cudf/core/frame.py	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
... and 61 more

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[harrism]

@gpucibot merge