Handle post_init and unknown terminate crash

[SimonUnge]

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Noticed that if a crash happens in the init callback in a ra_machine, the actual error gets obfuscated by the
ra_server_proc not handling a terminate without a state record.

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[kjnilsson]

oops sorry I squashed merged this by mistake when I should have used a merge commit.