[3.11] Backport to 3.11: Upgrade to Hibernate ORM 6.5.2 and configure Hibernate ORM/Reactive with database product names instead of dialect names for core dialects

[yrodiere]

Creating now as draft, but the ORM 6.5.2 release hasn't happened yet.

Fixes #37575

Backport of #40474 and #40674

Content of the upgrade:

https://hibernate.atlassian.net/issues/?jql=project%20%3D%20HHH%20AND%20fixVersion%20in%20(6.5.1,6.5.2)%20ORDER%20BY%20updated

6.5.1:

https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18112 Some dialects use the wrong default version
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-17421 On SQL Server, combining DISTINCT with PESSIMISTIC_WRITE causes needless follow-on locking
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18011 Parallel entity enhancement causes a classloader cache stampede
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-17305 Keep order of selected tables in polymorphic query
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18094 Bytebuddy enhancer: make better use of constants and memory
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18032 CompositeId, when the id assigned by PrePersist method an HibernateException: identifier of an instance of _ was altered is thrown
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-17827 “Not a managed type” error when using entity interface extending from java.util.Map
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-17837 Join + GroupBy: Wrong column used for many-to-many association
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-17834 lock(e, OPTIMISTIC_FORCE_INCREMENT) with TABLE_PER_SUBCLASS
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18091 Upgrade to ByteBuddy 1.14.15
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18080 hibernate.boot.allow_jdbc_metadata_access=false leads to warning about "0.0.0 version"
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18046 DB2 numeric parameter arithmetic issue
https://hibernate.atlassian.net/browse/HHH-18018 Derby implementation for 'right' function wrongly passes parameter to 'length'

6.5.2:

HHH-18112 Some dialects use the wrong default version
HHH-18026 Prevent dialects not supporting arbitrary values retrieval in getGeneratedKeys() from logging a SQL exception

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- Failing: extensions/reactive-mssql-client/deployment 
! Skipped: integration-tests/reactive-mssql-client 

📦 extensions/reactive-mssql-client/deployment

✖ Failed to execute goal io.fabric8:docker-maven-plugin:0.44.0:start (docker-start) on project quarkus-reactive-mssql-client-deployment: I/O Error

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Flaky tests - Develocity

⚙️ JVM Tests - JDK 21

📦 extensions/opentelemetry/deployment

✖ io.quarkus.opentelemetry.deployment.OpenTelemetrySpanSecurityEventsTest.testSecurityEventTypes - History

• event executor terminated - java.util.concurrent.RejectedExecutionException

java.util.concurrent.RejectedExecutionException: event executor terminated
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.reject(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:934)
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.offerTask(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:351)
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.addTask(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:344)
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.execute(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:836)
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.execute0(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:827)
	at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor.execute(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:817)
	at io.vertx.core.impl.EventLoopExecutor.execute(EventLoopExecutor.java:35)