Fix service binding for SqlServer and Oracle

[xieshenzh]

fixes #27461

1. Update the connection url for Oracle and SqlServer that is generated by the kubernetes-service-binding extension.
2. Add a new service binding configuration option jdbc-url to allow user to customize connection url for service binding. This is similar to what spring-service-binding supports.

[geoand]

Thanks!

[geoand]

@gsmet does the format also look good to you?

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- Failing: extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging-kafka/deployment 
! Skipped: integration-tests/kafka-oauth-keycloak integration-tests/kafka-sasl-elytron integration-tests/kubernetes/quarkus-standard-way-kafka and 3 more

📦 extensions/smallrye-reactive-messaging-kafka/deployment

✖ io.quarkus.smallrye.reactivemessaging.kafka.deployment.testing.KafkaDevServicesContinuousTestingTestCase.testContinuousTestingScenario2 line 83 - More details - Source on GitHub

org.awaitility.core.ConditionTimeoutException: Failed to wait for test run 4 State{lastRun=3, running=true, inProgress=true, run=1, passed=0, failed=1, skipped=0, isBrokenOnly=false, isTestOutput=false, isInstrumentationBasedReload=false, isLiveReload=true}
	at io.quarkus.test.ContinuousTestingTestUtils.waitForNextCompletion(ContinuousTestingTestUtils.java:44)
	at io.quarkus.smallrye.reactivemessaging.kafka.deployment.testing.KafkaDevServicesContinuousTestingTestCase.testContinuousTestingScenario2(KafkaDevServicesContinuousTestingTestCase.java:83)

[gsmet]

Not related to your patch but this is really brittle and close to unreadable. But let's not slow down your patch because of that as it's preexisting.

I would rather have to implement a method that takes proper parameters with names.