fix:合并main分支部分feature到release-v1.15.0

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• 增强instanceId兼容性，调整status同步逻辑 (增强instanceId兼容性，调整status同步逻辑 #1018)

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Codecov Report

Merging #1034 (a003d98) into release-v1.15.0 (2f2fc69) will increase coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

@@                 Coverage Diff                 @@
##           release-v1.15.0    #1034      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage            58.29%   58.31%   +0.01%     
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  Files                  190      190              
  Lines                34482    34482              
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+ Hits                 20103    20109       +6     
+ Misses               11747    11741       -6     
  Partials              2632     2632              

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