dm: upgrade go-mysql library

[D3Hunter]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11041

What is changed and how it works?

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Release note

upgrade go-mysql to fix the connection blocked when read handshake packet

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@lance6716

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/check-issue-triage-complete

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 57.4109%. Comparing base (894b36f) to head (b4bd8f1).
Report is 138 commits behind head on master.

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Timeline:

• 2024-05-07 08:30:00.06481106 +0000 UTC m=+950753.821946628: ☑️ agreed by lance6716.
• 2024-05-07 09:43:53.047327455 +0000 UTC m=+955186.804463028: ☑️ agreed by okJiang.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-8.1: #11187.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-6.5: #11188.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.5: #11189.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created to branch release-7.1: #11700.