Fix potential hang issues when fine grained shuffle is enabled

[windtalker]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #9413

Problem Summary:
#9424 fix #9413 by "Make sure that each time an ExchangeSenderSinkOp is notified, the ExchangeSenderSinkOp should either write data to LooseBoundedMPMCQueue, or try to notify another ExchangeSenderSinkOp", and actually requires that when ExchangeSenderSinkOp write data to MPPTunnelSetWriter, it will write data to all tunnels in MPPTunnelSetWriter. But for fine grained write, current code may skip the write if some tunnel does not have data to write, this is unexpected, and may make query hang in some extrame cases.

What is changed and how it works?

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

None

[yibin87]

LGTM

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Timeline:

• 2024-10-21 07:47:31.998018028 +0000 UTC m=+250852.694808663: ☑️ agreed by gengliqi.
• 2024-10-21 07:51:51.035393922 +0000 UTC m=+251111.732184561: ☑️ agreed by yibin87.