Disagg: Set the waiting time for thread pool. (#9393)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #9393

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #9392 ref #9334

Problem Summary:

The default wait_microseconds is 0, which means never wait.

What is changed and how it works?

Set wait_microseconds to disagg_build_task_timeout.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
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• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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None

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[JinheLin]

Replace by #9402