statistics: correct behavior of non-lite InitStats and stats sync load of no stats column (#57803)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57803

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #57804

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

You can regard this pull request as a totally rewrite of #53399 and #53298

This pull reduced the possible stats state after the stats initialization finished. Now we'll get the same memory objects after a non-concurrent or current non-lite load.

Then use the unified status to make the ColumnIsLoadNeeded correct when one column even has no record in mysql.stats_histograms.

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[Rustin170506]

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Timeline:

• 2024-12-03 12:12:58.088960151 +0000 UTC m=+1156965.708614667: ☑️ agreed by Rustin170506.
• 2024-12-03 12:13:34.968602032 +0000 UTC m=+1157002.588256547: ☑️ agreed by winoros.

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