statistics: rightly deal with timout when to send sync load (#57712)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57712

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #57710

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

in the origin code, we can not check the timeout after sending the sync load. so it will block the sending sync load and take too much time.

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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rightly deal with timout when to send sync load

正确处理发送 sync load 的超时

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