ddl: record get owner TS and compare it before runReorgJob quit (#55049)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #55049

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #54897

Problem Summary:

Timeline:

1. tidb-0 run ingest backfill workers as the DDL owner.
2. Inject network latency to tidb-0.
3. tidb-1 get DDL owner, and switch to merge temp index step.
4. Inject network latency to tidb-1. tidb-1's merge temp index backfill workers failed with "DDL is not owner"
5. tidb-0 get DDL owner AGAIN, but reorgCtx is the one added in step(1).
6. Merge temp index step is skipped because the reorgCtx is done.

What changed and how does it work?

Record get owner TS and compare it before runReorgJob quit.

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Tests

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[D3Hunter]

please fix conflicts

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Timeline:

• 2024-07-31 12:49:22.920057323 +0000 UTC m=+360079.200105391: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.
• 2024-08-01 03:22:58.738290104 +0000 UTC m=+412495.018338170: ☑️ agreed by tangenta.

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/retest