util/security: support client TLS verifies CommonName of server (#53358)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #53358

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #53357

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What changed and how does it work?

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Tests

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-05-22 04:30:42.267039329 +0000 UTC m=+2232396.024174894: ☑️ agreed by lance6716.
• 2024-05-22 06:11:50.370403116 +0000 UTC m=+2238464.127538690: ☑️ agreed by hawkingrei.