planner,executor: fix join resolveIndex won't find its column from children schema & amend join's lused and rused logic for reversed column ref from join schema to its children (#51203)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #51203

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #42588

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

issue #42588 is caused by many factors and this pr is try to resolve them all.

• first: resolve parent pointer modification error caused by the apply elimination, as mentioned here Panic triggered at chunk.appendCellByCell (util/chunk/chunk.go:421)  #42588 (comment)
• second: since TiDB internal has many non-rigorous logical optimizing rules, occasionally two or more of them will leading a critical assumption which will lead a resolveIndex error as mentioned here: planner: refactor Join and Limit's ResolveIndices #45831 (comment)
• third: in the execution of join, the inline projection's lused and rused are order unawareness, which means even if we allow reversed column ref in join schema itself to its children, it will break its assumption here too. So we need to fix here as well.
  example:

join schema[col11, col22, col21], child1 [col1], child2 [col21, col22]
the pull/45831 make an assumption here that join schema won't refer a column-order revered from the order of its children. Like here [col22, col21] in join schema is reversed with  [col21, col22] from its child2. Step2 try to fix this.

in the execution layer.
join schema[col11, col22, col21], child1 [col1], child2 [col21, col22]
the lused will be [true]
the rused will be [true, true]
when constructing the join row result, the order couldn't be restored from a simple bool array. Consequently one join result will be shown like: <col1, col21, col22> while the field type is totally different from what the datum in the same position. So step3 try to fix this.

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