updating go to 1.22 and k8s to 1.30

[acornett21]

Description of the change:
Updating go, k8s, kubebuilder and supporting dependencies to the proper version to support go 1.22 and k8s 1.30.

Motivation for the change:
To keep this project aligned with kubbuilder and support k8s 1.30.

• Fixes: Support Go 1.22 and/or 1.23 #6788
• Fixes: Using kubebuilder's built-it mechanizm to secure /metrics instead of using kube-rbac-proxy in helm-operator #6844
• Closes: Meta Issue for k8s 1.30 bump #6730

Checklist

If the pull request includes user-facing changes, extra documentation is required:

• Add a new changelog fragment in changelog/fragments (see changelog/fragments/00-template.yaml)
• Add or update relevant sections of the docs website in website/content/en/docs

[acornett21]

@Neo2308 I'm hoping this is most of the things, but still WIP. Also need to work on a changelog doc for this. If kubebuilder has a changelog, I'll probably just model it after that, thoughts?

[Neo2308]

Yeah, sounds good. Some changes will be needed to fix the builds.

[mateusoliveira43]

would it be better to have a variable that holds this value? Update would require changing only it instead of the places that need it

[acornett21]

closing in favor of

• updating to k8s 1.30 dependencies and kubebuilder v4 #6848