Configure dogpile.cache to deal with memcached pods failures

Whenever one of the mecached pods disappears, because of a rolling
restart during a minor update or as result of a failure, APIs can
take a long time to detect that the pod went away and keep trying
to reconnect.

From a quick round of tests we saw downtimes up to ~150s.

By enabling the retry_client and limiting the number of retries
the behavior seems much more acceptable.

Similarly, when TLS is not in use, we may want to set a lower
value for memcache_dead_retry so to eventually reconnect to a new
pod (having the same dns name but different ip) much faster.

Jira: https://issues.redhat.com/browse/OSPRH-11935

templates/nova.conf

@@ -172,8 +172,12 @@ enabled = True
 # on contoler we prefer to use memcache when its deployed
 {{if .MemcachedTLS}}
 backend = dogpile.cache.pymemcache
+enable_retry_client = true
+retry_attempts = 2
+retry_delay = 0
 {{else}}
 backend = dogpile.cache.memcached
+memcache_dead_retry = 10
 {{end}}
 memcache_servers={{ .MemcachedServers }}
 tls_enabled={{ .MemcachedTLS }}