refactor!: Move shared sql behavior to helper gems #1796

Job	Run time
mysql / mysql2 / ubuntu-latest	1m 54s
postgresql / pg / ubuntu-latest	2m 53s
kafka / racecar / ubuntu-latest	12m 51s
mysql / trilogy / ubuntu-latest	1m 12s
postgresql / que / ubuntu-latest	1m 57s
kafka / rdkafka / ubuntu-latest	12m 20s
kafka / ruby_kafka / ubuntu-latest	4m 35s
rabbitmq / bunny / ubuntu-latest	55s
redis / redis / ubuntu-latest	1m 49s
redis / resque / ubuntu-latest	1m 17s
other / dalli / ubuntu-latest	2m 40s
redis / sidekiq / ubuntu-latest	4m 29s
other / mongo / ubuntu-latest	2m 51s
	51m 43s

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