[Traces] Support named options in gRPC instrumentation

[CodeBlanch]

Changes

• Applies the named options pattern from [Metrics] Clean up repo exporters to use new DI patterns #3648 to gRPC tracer builder extension.

TODOs

• Appropriate CHANGELOG.md updated for non-trivial changes
• Unit tests
• Changes in public API reviewed

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #3665 (2fe8773) into main (928d770) will decrease coverage by 0.05%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   87.68%   87.63%   -0.06%     
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  Files         283      283              
  Lines       10276    10283       +7     
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  Hits         9011     9011              
- Misses       1265     1272       +7     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...n.GrpcNetClient/TracerProviderBuilderExtensions.cs	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
src/OpenTelemetry/Logs/Pool/LogRecordSharedPool.cs	78.94% <0.00%> (-21.06%)	⬇️
...metryProtocol/Implementation/ActivityExtensions.cs	95.05% <0.00%> (-1.10%)	⬇️
...Telemetry/Internal/SelfDiagnosticsEventListener.cs	96.87% <0.00%> (-0.79%)	⬇️
...tpListener/Internal/PrometheusCollectionManager.cs	74.72% <0.00%> (+2.19%)	⬆️
...emetry.Api/Internal/OpenTelemetryApiEventSource.cs	79.41% <0.00%> (+5.88%)	⬆️