[BUILD] Visual Studio GMOCK_LIB issues and explicit c++17 #10603

Job	Run time
CMake test (with abseil)	4m 58s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	8m 58s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, async)	10m 13s
CMake clang 18 (maintainer mode, sync)	10m 16s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	8m 39s
CMake gcc 14 (maintainer mode, async)	7m 24s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	7m 14s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode) with C++20	8m 33s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	4m 5s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	4m 47s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	4m 53s
Bazel without bzlmod	16m 45s
Bazel noexcept	16m 1s
Bazel	16m 46s
Bazel with async export	16m 33s
Bazel valgrind	7m 6s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 32s
CMake install test (with abseil)	4m 45s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	19m 5s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	14m 32s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	14m 29s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	5m 4s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 11s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	8m 53s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	9m 14s
CMake C++23 test(Clang with libc++)	8m 36s
CMake C++23 test(GCC)	8m 36s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 20s
Bazel asan config	19m 32s
Bazel nortti	17m 22s
Bazel on MacOS	12m 8s
Bazel tsan config	17m 25s
Benchmark	12m 45s
Code coverage	11m 7s
Copyright	7s
DocFX check	31s
Format	28s
markdown-lint	8s
misspell	3s
shellcheck	4s
W3C Distributed Tracing Validation V1	4m 15s
CMake -> exporter proto	12m 28s
Bazel Windows	30m 31s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	6m 19s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	12m 5s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	23m 0s
	7h 26m 46s

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