chore(manifest): add optional peerDependencies

[gabormagyar]

closes #2071

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Issue Number: #2071

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More Info

I gathered all usages of the checkPackages function to see what packages it could be called with, and added those as optional peerDeps.

We could (and probably should) specify what versions are compatible, but I lack the knowledge to do that. Adding them as "*" is already an improvement.

[BrunnerLivio]

Ohhh that is awesome, I've been looking for optional peer dependencies for so long. Didn't know it was here. I'll merge it asap and create a beta release so I can test it real quick.

[BrunnerLivio]

This has been released with 9.1.3
🎉