Merge #3208

3208: chore: upgrade yamux r=doitian,TheWaWaR a=driftluo

### What problem does this PR solve?

In the default configuration, it has no effect, but we can enable the adjustment of window size after hardfork

```
## yamux 0.3.1-0.3.3 secio 0.5.1

yamux 0.3.2: edition 2018 
yamux 0.3.3 and 0.3.1: edition 2021

### Bug Fix

- Fix yamux window update(#340)
```

### Check List

Tests

- Unit test
- Integration test

### Release note

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None: Exclude this PR from the release note.
```



Co-authored-by: driftluo <[email protected]>