Update oauthenticator to latest stable (16.2.1)

[krassowski]

Reference Issues or PRs

Relates to nebari-dev/nebari#2308

This is a smaller ask than updating to unreleased version (as in #127) but still gets use over 2 years of patches - including some deprecations/minor changes which will need to be reflected in the nebari codebase.

What does this implement/fix?

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• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds a feature)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing features not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Code style update (formatting, renaming)
• Refactoring (no functional changes, no API changes)
• Build related changes
• Other (please describe):

Testing

• Did you test the pull request locally?
• Did you add new tests?

Documentation

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• This content adheres to the Nebari style guides.

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Any other comments?

[krassowski]

Closing in favour of #131