MONGOID-5757 Fix validation checks so that all associated records are validated #3709

Job	Run time
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 22s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 16s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 37s
ruby-3.0 drv:stable db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 2s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	12m 33s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	12m 12s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	13m 23s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	12m 38s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	12m 44s
jruby-9.4 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	21m 1s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:5.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 29s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.4 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 45s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.0 rails: fle: replica_set	13m 17s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:3.6 rails: fle: replica_set	12m 58s
	3h 11m 17s

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