feat: Move "on hand" and "last made" to household

[michael-genson]

What type of PR is this?

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• feature
• bug

What this PR does / why we need it:

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This feature migrates food on-hand and tool on-hand to be configured per-household, as well as the recipe's "last made" property. The user experience is mostly the same,

(this plays nicely with the cocktail builder PR, although it may generate some merge conflicts) fixed now that it's merged.

While working on this PR I also uncovered/fixed a few existing issues:

• Currently the orderBy param must be in snake case, while filters can be in either snake case or camel case. This PR fixes this by allowing camel case in the order by
• When sorting by rating, we already correctly sort by the user's rating (rather than the global rating), however we didn't account for this in filters (i.e. if you included rating in a query filter, it would only use the global rating). This is fixed by this PR (since the same issue occurred using last made in a filter).

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

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N/A

Special notes for your reviewer:

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If this is merged before the cocktail builder, I will update that PR to use the new on hand properties. If the cocktail is merged before this, I will fix it in this PR fixed.

Testing

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Pulled up two browsers with users from different households, as well as a bunch of backend tests.

[michael-genson]

Merged this with main now that the cocktail builder is in and updated the logic as needed