Fix panic in on duplicate key update #25549

Job	Run time
CHECK PR VALID	5s
Matrixone CI / UT Test on Ubuntu/x86	17m 53s
Matrixone CI / UT Test on Darwin/x86	0s
Matrixone CI / SCA Test on Ubuntu/x86	10m 17s
Matrixone Compose CI / multi cn e2e bvt test docker compose(Optimistic/PUSH)	20m 59s
Matrixone Compose CI / multi cn e2e bvt test docker compose(PESSIMISTIC)	28m 0s
Matrixone Upgrade CI / Compatibility Test With Target on Linux/x64(LAUNCH)	48m 12s
Matrixone Standlone CI / e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH,Optimistic)	31m 25s
Matrixone Standlone CI / Multi-CN e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH, PROXY)	27m 7s
Matrixone Standlone CI / e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH, PESSIMISTIC)	23m 11s
Matrixone Upgrade CI / Compatibility Test With Release on Linux/x64(LAUNCH)	0s
Matrixone Utils CI / check_organization_user	3s
Matrixone Utils CI / pr-size-label	1s
Matrixone Utils CI / Coverage	57m 35s
Matrixone Utils CI / docu_issue_check	0s
	4h 24m 48s

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