use force_update policy in `show table status` #24667

Job	Run time
CHECK PR VALID	3s
Matrixone Upgrade CI / Compatibility Test With Target on Linux/x64(LAUNCH)	49m 44s
Matrixone Compose CI / multi cn e2e bvt test docker compose(PESSIMISTIC)	30m 19s
Matrixone CI / UT Test on Ubuntu/x86	21m 24s
Matrixone Compose CI / multi cn e2e bvt test docker compose(Optimistic/PUSH)	20m 38s
Matrixone Upgrade CI / Compatibility Test With Release on Linux/x64(LAUNCH)	0s
Matrixone CI / SCA Test on Ubuntu/x86	10m 2s
Matrixone CI / UT Test on Darwin/x86	0s
Matrixone Standlone CI / e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH,Optimistic)	31m 32s
Matrixone Standlone CI / Multi-CN e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH, PROXY)	25m 50s
Matrixone Standlone CI / e2e BVT Test on Linux/x64(LAUNCH, PESSIMISTIC)	24m 30s
Matrixone Utils CI / check_organization_user	3s
Matrixone Utils CI / pr-size-label	3s
Matrixone Utils CI / PR Unit and BVT Test Coverage	42m 37s
Matrixone Utils CI / docu_issue_check	0s
	4h 16m 45s

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